Looking good is not about being self absorbed, it’s simply another way to become the best you that you can be. In doing this, you immediately gain self-confidence: look good = feel good.
When you look good, you are attracting the attention of your partner and also making him desire you.
Being attractive is not the point, but using your best assets to get your partner to look at you and feel lucky that he is with the best looking woman at the party, that is what is important. That you have taken the effort to do your hair or put on some lipstick, that, in turn makes your partner feel good about himself as well.
After having 3 young children believe me when I say I have days when all I want to do is wear sweatpants and no bra around the house. But I have learnt to just make a little bit of effort before Brian gets home to put on a fresh dress, or pull my hair back, just something small to show that I want to look good for him. That I think he is worth the effort. And he appreciates that completely.
There are many ways to make yourself look good and become more attractive to yourself and your partner.
These may include:
- Fashion and Accessories
- Diet and Exercise
- Cosmetic or Plastic Surgery
Remember looking good = feeling good.
This is a great lesson in building the foundation for a solid relationship.